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    A lady’s viral social media video has stirred widespread reactions online after she shared her views about dating older men.

    In the clip, she warned younger women about the emotional and mental demands of relationships with men in their late 30s and 40s.

    Her comments, delivered in a mix of English and Pidgin, have triggered conversations about maturity, control, and communication in modern relationships.

    “Dating Them Feels Like Being in School”

    In the video, the lady said: “If you are a girl, and you’ve not dated a man in his late 30s and 40s, then you will not understand what I’m saying. You know say in relationship, them dey go to school, these mature people, they are the ones that if you are in relationship with them, you are in school.

    This one is not a normal relationship. This one, you’re in school, you go there careful, because anything that you do, they don mark you bad.

    They no dey talk to them anyhow. You no go fit open your mouth, talk to them, you will calculate what you will tell them.

    You have to be very careful with the words you are choosing to say to them. You know, if you play some kind of play with them, you don insult them. You’ve insulted them, and they know it all.

    As you see them there, they are too intelligent. They have experience, a lot of experiences, and you don’t have. You nwatakiri, they will say you are a small girl.

    What do you know? What day did you enter into the dating circles? You are not talking when I’m talking.

    You no go fit tell am him do something bad, them go analyse the thing for you, tell you how e take dey right, how you take dey wrong.

    Dey go put you through, dey go arrange you, dey go place you where dey suppose place you. So if you don’t get mental strength, don’t go there, because those people, they know it all.

    They don date all the relationships, they don date almost 100 women, so they know everything about women.

    So dey belief say they go dey do am the way they take no am. So if you don’t get strength, don’t put your head there.”

    Watch the video here…

     

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